Each of us has a bias, a leaning towards one direction over another. In recent times there has been an awakening in the world as we are seemingly confronted with differing perspectives to our own. This is an important advancement in society for us as a species to continue to thrive.
Some though, are resisting this awakening, using the term 'woke' in a derogatory way.
For me, the marae epitomises one way forward in our dynamic world if we are to improve as a society. Respecting each other's differences while working towards a common goal of progression and survival.
We can indeed learn a lot from each other if we can overcome our learned bias. A bias inhibits our ability to see a situation from another's perspective and reduces the possibility of us developing. Our biases hold us back from learning, understanding and progressing. Dare I say it, we remain ignorant, lacking awareness.
So how are biases formed? Most biases are implicit, unconscious, and are formed in our formative years when our brain easily influenced by the environment in which we grow up.
Our brain prefers to run with a bias by grouping things together. We seek patterns to stay within our (safe) comfort zone, and we are conditioned by those around us to 'fit in' and feel connected. Overcoming our bias is difficult because we first have to be aware that we have one.
It is said that if we have an open mind then we will have a greater ability to overcome our learned bias. I prefer to take the longer route and question everything, including myself. Do so from as many sources as possible.
Is there any better way to do this than by following the rules of whaikōrero (speeches) on a marae? Each speaker takes turns without interruption. Opposing views come together to listen, challenge and question each other, respectfully.
The next time that you feel strongly about something with an opposing view, take the time to question why that might be. Is it your upbringing, is it your known and safe pattern, or is it your ease of association that has caused you to think this way?
You might be right, but then again you may not be. We each learn from the other, we are never an expert, for things change. We must continue to learn if we are to progress and survive.
Let's korero!
We All Have A Bias!